Promise Christian Life Coaching by Chrystyana

"Good Witch"

I am having issues with my Wix website. It won't let me write (it's very slow on my Blog). So I decided to come to this blog instead. I have not been here in a while but I think it is important to share here too because I have a different audience here than I do on my healing hands website. I want to reach out to as many people as I can. In the meantime, I will try to get my computer up to speed. :) In the last blog, I wrote about a spell that I was planning on doing on the full moon (tonight). I will do it around 12-1 am (so actually tomorrow). :) It is Sept 16th, 2016 tonight. Tonight will be the harvest moon lunar eclipse and it is a perfect time for releasing anything that no longer serves you. I decided that I needed to release anger. So here is the link to a website with the spell that I will perform (info is copied and pasted).

***http://www.everythingunderthemoon.net/spells/release-anger-spell.htm***

* Most forms of abuse result in powerful feelings of anger or rage, which must be expressed in a safe, positive fashion if it is not to either destroy you or others. I'd like to present an alternate method of dealing with the anger through a ritual--allowing you to purge the energy safely and then let it go.

For this ritual, you will need some quiet time, a red candle, a black or a white candle, paper and writing implements, a container in which to burn paper, and matches. Any other symbols, magickal gear, or accoutrements you wish to bring to the ritual are yours to choose; I'm just presenting the bare bones.

Once you have gathered your stuff and set up your quiet space, you will want to call in a circle to protect yourself, and to protect others from the energies you plan to release.

Face the east, and call upon the air to help you express your rage clearly, to help you focus mentally while you release your emotions safely within the circle.

Face the south, and call upon fire to help your rage burn up and out of you, burning away the past and the trauma that has enraged you.

Face the west, and call upon the water to help your emotions flow freely within the circle, cleansing your spirit and restoring yourself.

Face the north, and call upon the earth to allow you to safely ground your rage, and to sustain and support your through the releasing process. As you call in the directions, visualize a circle of white light forming around your working space, shielding you and protecting you with the elements you've called in.

(I have sometimes found that it also helps to call upon the archangels to further strengthen the circle--Raphael for east, Michael for south, Gabriel for west, and Uriel for north--if your beliefs trend that way.)

Then when you feel the circle is secure, call upon the Higher Powers in whatever form you relate to them to work with you and shield you through the course of the ritual.

Now, light the red candle. By its light, begin to write or draw what it is that is enraging you, whether it be some form of emotional abuse that trashed your worth as a person, sexual abuse that made you into an object, physical abuse that broke your body's connection with your mind, or whatever. Focus on making the issues clear to yourself and the Higher Powers that you've called in. Focus on how the actions made *you* feel, not on the other person's guilt or motivations, or on revenge on the other person. (You can do this part ahead of time, if you want. I wrote a long letter to my mother explaining exactly what I remembered and felt out of our abusive relationship, being careful to keep it in "I-statements" and not start blaming her. Blame may be necessary for some folks, but until you release the rage within, I feel that you cannot assess blame rationally and safely.)

Next, hold the paper between your hands, focus your awareness on the red candle, and begin to chant, shout, scream, or make whatever sounds help you to feel the rage come up and leave you. Send the rage into the red candle. Focus your rage on the red candle, watching the flames burn brighter and hotter as the force of your anger fuels them. When you feel that you've released the red rage as much as you can, light the papers on which you've drawn or written your problem and drop them into the container so they can burn out. (Do remember to put something under the container to protect the surface it rests on--we did this ritual as a group a couple of years ago and caught the carpet on fire.)

After the papers have begun to burn down, light the black or white candle. (The choice of color depends on how you wish to focus on restoring yourself--black represents the energy of transformation and white represents an energy of peace and purification.) Focus on what you'd like to replace the rage with--peace, self-esteem, happiness, or whatever. Let the energy of the new emotions fill you up. Write or draw on a new piece of paper those things that you want to find in yourself and your life now that you've released the poisonous rage that was holding you back. You could even take the ashes from the burnt paper and write the name of the emotion on a new piece of paper to help you focus. Feel the healing begin.

When you are comfortably calm again, release the energy of the circle. Visualize it sinking back into the earth as you thank the elements at each direction for watching over you. Thank the Higher Powers for their insight and help. Let the candles burn completely out.

May you find this ritual to be as healing for you as I found it to be, if anything bad happened to you in childhood or since like rape or abuse etc it is NOT your fault so do not let your abuser win. Let go of it and move on -get counseling if it will help. This ritual can also help those locked in feelings. You might want to add some of your own words..*

The only thing that I plan on changing is to use a white candle, rather than a black candle. I have an off white, cream colored white candle that I feel is perfect to bring peace and purification into my life, heart, mind and soul. I have small red tea light candles that I will use as well. I will be using a glass jar to burn the paper in and the spell will be performed in my back yard. I might have a few people interrupt me because I live 3 other people and a cat. So my privacy is limited but I will work with what I have. When I open and close a circle, I like to call on the Archangels and thank them for their protection and help. Archangel Michael is my fav to call on because he defends, protects, shields and is a warrior, fighting off anything that could possibly harm me or others. Whenever I do a spell/prayer, I do it out of love and not fear. My intention is to harm none. I do not curse people or try to control them through magick. When you do that to others, it comes back to you three fold. Treat others as you would like to be treated (the golden rule).
For those of you that are Christian, I understand that witchcraft is forbidden but for me personally, I don't feel that I am doing anything wrong or harming anyone or anything. Each spell that I do is infused with love, compassion and empathy. I still believe in God and am still a Christian but I am rearranging my beliefs, getting rid of the old beliefs that no longer serve me and adding new beliefs and practices (like divination, the craft, ritual, calling on the earth's energies, etc). So you can see the spell I am performing this evening (above these two paragraphs), you can see that it involves nothing Satanic, which is what many people think The Craft is. Black magick is Satanic but not ALL magick is wicked and dark. Some of it is very beautiful and powerful.
I would like to encourage all of you (if you would like to) try some good magick that will help you and maybe even others. Just as long as you harm no one, you are good and safe from negative karma. A spell is actually a prayer (it's just done a little differently). In my opinion, you can do magick with just your mind and intention. If you have a clear and precise intention and desire, you can manifest it with amazing power. When I first began working with magick and the elements, I would go to a private spot at my fav river, draw on the power of the river (water element of deep emotions) and sometimes smudge and light a candle to focus my intention. My intention was for a woman that I was deeply in love with, to open her heart and love me as she desired but I made it clear that everything was to happen on her own free will and her own choices. Since she desired me, the power and chemistry was already there between us and the magick was mind blowingly powerful. I know she felt it and so did I. Unfortunately, this relationship ended badly and I snapped on her because I was so hurt that she slammed the door shut on me out of fear. You see, she was my therapist. Yes, people often fall in love with their therapists. It is common but the funny thing is that I knew she desired me because of the way she looked at me. If you know what sexual attraction and chemistry is then you know how it feels when someone desires you and looks at you like THAT. Lol :) She was afraid and severed the relationship. I don't blame her because as a therapist, she could have lost her license if anything happened, like sex for instance. I thank God that it never went that far because then my heart would have REALLY broken.
Even though there was pain in this experience, it was also very beautiful and pleasurable. It was so exciting to meet with her and I felt like we really had a deep connection. I cared for her and she cared for me but I don't think she was in love; it was most likely lust. I think the two can be confused and maybe she was confused? Regardless folks, don;t be afraid to try new things (magick). It is very powerful and very effective. I had some of the most mind blowing experiences ever! Have you ever tried astral sex? I have and it was the most amazing sex that I have EVER had. It's very real! So is telepathic communication. Combine the two and it's amazing, with high intensity of emotions. Masturbation and visualization of the person you love can create powerful magick that the other person will sense. They will know something is up but most likely will not be able to pin point WHY this person arouses them so much! Lol :D
So.... back to my spell. Like I said, I will be doing it from 12-1 am. I also forgot to mention that I will be making a circle of protection out of sea salt and will be smudging before and after the ritual. I will also be incorporating paprika, which enhances any spell that you do. I have this gut feeling/intuitive feeling that I should blow the paprika powder out of my hand before I burn the paper with my intention on it. My intention is to fully let go and release any anger that I have towards Joanne (my x therapist). Now let me make it clear that the relationship was therapeutic and never romantic. I am not delusional and do not believe that we actually had a relationship or that she even loved me but I certainly loved her very deeply. I want to release her for good and never look back again. I encourage you to try this spell and release that deep seated anger that no longer serves you. Feel free to add to the spell, or omit certain things. Do your own thing. The Wiccan rede is "an harm none, do what ye wilt." So you can basically do whatever you want, just as long as you harm no one, including yourself. Harm absolutely nothing and be sure your spell/prayer comes from love, compassion and empathy. The second any negative feeling creeps in you take the risk of having it pollute your spell and indirectly send out a curse to the other person and to yourself (which I did by accident). This happened with Joanne and backfired in ways that I was not prepared for. My energy was being sent out into the universe and I wanted her so badly but she was sending fear out into the universe and was too afraid to love me (which I understand). I don't think she really wanted to love, so my energy accidentally pissed her off and made her abruptly cut me off. So be careful if you are doing spells that involve others. Sometimes they can backfire when you never meant to harm the other person.
I am signing off now. I will be doing my blog talk radio show on Mon night. To follow me, look me up on Facebook at Promise Life Coaching. :)

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